If you’re wondering what chance you have of getting back together, know that it’s totally possible, even if you say my ex is dating someone else; even if they say they’re happy and in love. It's not unusual for an ex to contact you when he or she is still with someone else. Under that logic, I've never gotten over anyone in my life. But it's up to you, man. If an ex misses you and wants you even after the break up, you’d probably encounter many of your ex’s friends who come to you and reveal secretly just how much your ex still misses you and wants you. Since 2007, we’ve accompanied over ten thousand men and women, and I’ve come across this situation many times. He was drunk when he texted that. If you’re a regular of this blog, you’ve probably gone deaf of hearing about the indefinite no contact rule by now. A selfish person would try to have the new 'exciting' love, plus hold onto the friendship with the ex without thinking about what that friendship costs you or how painful it must be for you to know he left you for someone else and want him back and still try to be friends with him. He made a choice to leave you for someone else, and of course is attached to you after 4.5 years together. A friend once told me his test of whether he's over an ex is whether it would bother him if they were dating someone else. I change the subject like the article said, he continued a little bit and then stopped. He would always say he isn’t ready but still yet we were doing stuff as if we were in a relationship sex etc. The sooner you eliminate her from your life, the sooner you can move on, the sooner you can meet someone who isn't going to bullshit you and is worthy of you affections. Now if he says he misses having you as a friend, he could be honest about that. But then the next day he started telling me about a girl he likes but she doesn ‘t agree to go out with him and stuff like that. But i don’t know What to think, i dont know if that lowers my chances of getting him back. The reason for that is because your ex is a human being, capable of feeling guilty for treating you badly. Whatever your decision, good luck. My ex is with someone else but still contacts me. Let’s talk about what this means… Today’s question comes from a woman in our community and she asks… “Hey Matt, why does my ex-boyfriend still think I’m beautiful and says he loves me and that I’m almost perfect… But he’s seeing someone …

But that’s not what I get from your question. Anyway that upset me, i didn’t say anything just changed the subject. A friend once told me his test of whether he's over an ex is whether it would bother him if they were dating someone else.

Since your ex is dating someone else and it hurts you badly, I would advise you to do what it takes to protect yourself.